The most destructive to which we can accept the relationship type is lose / lose, where the person thinks, "if nobody ever wins, perhaps being a loser is not so bad."
These situations are difficult for example in cases of divorce where the husband must give 50% of his assets to his wife, and before giving it a miserable price she prefers to give his wife the minimum possible. Example: The husband has a car valued at € 100,000 and sells for 20,000 €, to deliver instead of € 50,000 to his wife, give only 10,000 €. So the two are harmed, no one wins anything, but the husband feels less alone to lose because they lose them.
This situation does not generate anything, just destroyed. Revenge is a situation of war.
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