When you want someone to really understand and want to take an important step forward in a relationship based on trust, you have to focus and think about what is important to you and what is important for the other person not always have to match.
We must be clear that it is essential the principle of doing what is important to the other person is as important as the person himself to us. We must try to understand deeply the other, as we ourselves would want to be understood.
For example, when working at home, very busy, and we ask our child about something that we seem trivial, but for him it is very important, in this situation when we showed him if you can trust us to feel understood or whether, on the contrary, we will leave with the feeling that we think that their problems are nonsense. It is clear that if we pass it, next time will not come to us and we will have lost part very important for their confidence in us.
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