Most of us have been brought from small to compete with others, think that if I win, the other loses, it's like our enemy, as if it were a dispute, and this need not If so forever.
The basis of this thinking win / lose lies in the excessive compared to endure, from small compete with our brothers for the love of our parents, our friends wish to be the most loved, most admired, and so on.
People who act as the paradigm of win / lose, are negative people, stubborn and selfish.
This sense of competition does not serve to establish good relationships (both romantic relationships, family, work, etc), we can do that endure over time a relationship where there is always a winner and a loser, where a strong and weak, so that relationships evolve and endure over time there should be a relationship where both people feel valued and to cooperate in their relationship fruition.
there room for the result I win / you lose, but I think this place is in sporting events and other situations that support it.
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